Earlier this week my wife’s cousin died.
She was truly an inspirational person, primarily because of the incredible challenges she faced and overcame during her life. At age two she lost her sense of vision and also lost both parents at a very young age. As a young blind girl, she was raised by her Aunt and Uncle, who were fortunately outstanding Christian parents, in a very small home with four of her cousins.
As an adult, she married a wonderful Christian man who was also legally blind. Here’s where the story gets even more amazing. My wife’s blind cousin home-schooled all three of her children. However, cancer became too much of a challenge and she finally decided to send them to public school this fall.
On the day she died just this week, my wife spoke to her on the phone. Here are a few things she told my wife about her life and home schooling:
- That morning she was given only hours to live by her doctor.
- Later that same morning she had met with her church prayer group and she told my wife on the phone that she was not afraid of dying; but her only concern was for her children, now age 13, 10 and 7, and her blind husband who would be left to take care of the children.
- She said that home-schooling had its challenges but that she had no regrets because of all the wonderful time she was able to spend with her children.
Approximately 12 hours after that phone call, my wife’s cousin died in the presence of her family. Of course, there was much more to her life than just home schooling her children; but I couldn’t help but think that a significant part of the legacy she will leave her children is that Christianity, parenting and home schooling have one important common thread — a parent’s love for her children.







